COO decision making

She was Smart, Creative, a Great communicator, Fit, Well Connected

She was also the COO of a really interesting company…

We’ll call her Emma.

Emma was coming to see me for various reasons, the sum total of which was,

Why can’t I make life work for me?

Her health wasn’t what she wanted it to be, her career wasn’t in the place she wanted it to be, nor were her relationships.

As she saw it she was holding all the right cards she just never quite played the right hand, never really made the BEST decision for her now.

Never chose the right partner, job, diet, staff, response and the harder she tried, the more she tried to correct course the worse things became.

It’s so easy to see life as a flip of a coin and often it is but the truth is you’re either playing with a double headed coin or a double tailed.

If you’re being your dream self you’re far more likely to experience a dream life.

If you’re being your nightmare self you’re far more likely to have a nightmare life REGARDLESS of the decision you make.

You’re a human being not a human doing what that means is, you don’t do something then become happy. You’re happy and then do something.

When we place attention on the world we become frustrated with everyone who isn’t bending to our will, even ourselves.

When we become self-centred so to speak and focus on BEING and creating who we are life has an amazing way of unfolding for us.

When she shifted her focus I can’t tell you the amazing life that began to unfold for her…

But really that’s not the best part. The best part is that she because present in it, win, lose or draw.

Where is you’re attention right now?