I couldn’t find who said that, but it’s true.
I couldn’t find who said that, but it’s true.
When you don’t know how you’re going to financially survive, your ability to think long-term, rationally, and creatively is significantly diminished.
The dominant neural pathways at that time are primarily reactive—focused on short-term needs regardless of whether that jeopardises long-term goals.
Building and growing a company is the same.
The question is not, “How do I get more done or make better decisions?”
It’s…
How do I consistently give myself access to my clearest, most strategic, most creative self?
Because when you don’t have access, here’s what happens:
• You’re short with your team.
• You’re flat with your partner.
• You second-guess yourself.
• You make half-decisions.
• You avoid the hard conversations.
• You micromanage.
• You compromise your values and call it ‘strategy’.
So what puts CEOs into threat and blocks their access?
• Insufficient sleep
• Under-eating or poor nutrition
• Misalignment at home
• Conflict avoidance
• Feeling like a fraud
• Lack of recovery or joy
• Lack of clarity on value creation
• Chasing too many goals
• Focusing on proving rather than building
• Loneliness
• Disconnection from purpose
• Team dynamics they feel ill-equipped to lead
And the nervous system doesn’t lie.
When it feels unsafe, your whole operating system changes.
So the real leverage isn’t pushing harder—it’s learning how to stay in that high-trust, high-capacity, creative zone more often.
Curious what it would look like to build a company without your nervous system paying the price?
That’s what I help CEOs do.
If that’s something you’re exploring, send me a message. We’ll talk. No pressure. Just clarity.
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