The calories counting guys aren't wrong

The calories counting guys aren't wrong
The 6 meals a days guys aren't wrong
The body building workout guys aren't wrong
The intermittent fasting guys aren't wrong
The low carb guys aren't wrong
The high fat guys aren't wrong
The Crossfit guys aren't wrong
The paleo guys aren't wrong 

But neither are they right, 

They are passionately, wholeheartedly, unwaveringly, in love. 

They have found what works for them (as they have defined it), they have found a group that shares the same love and they have made it their world. 

From inside their world they preach 

"This is the answer" 
(The one they were seeking) 

To all who will listen, 

They are relentless, persistent, and dogmatic in their belief. 

They will violently fight to protect their belief. 

They will speak so emphatically and with such passion that they draw you towards them. 

And that's fine of course, you might fall in love too. 

But you may find control and struggle and emotional conflict. 

And if you do you would be served to know, that there is no THE answer there is only what works for you.

What works for you is always evolving, 

so start where you are and know that when you take a step forwards you become a different person. 

Everyone has potential
Nobody has reached it 

Keep moving forwards until you fall in love with an idea. 

When you do though. 

Don't sell the idea as THE answer, 

Sell falling in love with what you are doing as the answer,

That's the real secret formula

Ed Ley