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So I’ve been plagued by this most of my life

Getting defensive

Withdrawing from some people

Explaining to people how they’re wrong

Getting agree when people cancel on me

Basically being someone other than I wanted to be with others.

I was pretty relieved when I discovered everyone has their own version of this going on.

Although probably a far less sarcastic version.

The brain is always measuring our level of safety within the tribe

Via a part of the brain called the Anterior Cingulate Cortex (mostly) it constantly scans for risk of loss or opportunity to gain hierarchy and connection.

LEARNINGEd Ley31 May 2022selfcoaching, performance coach, anxiety, communication, compassion, people pleasing, anger, arguing, conflict, communicate, life coach, business coach, coaching, coach, leading, become a better leader, leader coach

8 Questions that will Determine Your Success as a Leader

Your success as a leader will be determined by how you deal with people.

It won’t be defined by your ideas, problem solving, charisma, or brilliance but by how people feel in your organisation.

Do they love working with you and for you. Do they feel valued, inspired, fairly treated, well supported?

This is not just about your current project but will echo into your future.

ACTIONEd Ley27 April 2022neuroscience, coach, coaching, leadership, ceo, leadership coach, leader coach, become a better leader, become a better ceo, founder, foundersComment